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Are you feeling overwhelmed by all of the planning involved in getting your wedding together? If so, you might be feeling tempted to just forget about it and run away with your fiancé and elope together. While it may sound a bit crazy, the reality is that an increasing number of people are deciding to tie the knot in this way.

There are actually a bunch of reasons for deciding to elope. Some people find that it is the only real answer because their families are just driving them crazy! On the other hand, eloping can really be a good way to save money on your wedding. Many people dream about their wedding day, but there are many men and women that are deciding to be a bit more practical about starting their lives together. For example, rather than spending thousands of dollars on a wedding, they choose to use that money to invest in a new a home together.

I think the main reasons for eloping are about feelings, though. Some couples decide to elope because the thought of running off together is exciting and romantic. And, of course, there are many great destinations that couples can choose to run of to for their nuptials.

Eloping is also a great way to have a private, intimate wedding. Some couples simply don’t like being the center of so much attention and they want their wedding day to be more about them than about trying to entertain hundreds of guests.

Unfortunately, eloping can have some negative fallout as well. For example, your family and friends might feel shafted by your decision. Many parents look forward to watching their children get married and they may feel offended or let down by your decision. Personally, I am of the mindset that this is your day, so it should be planned in whatever way you see fit. At the same time, you might want to consider your family when making the decision to elope. Of course, you also need to make certain that eloping is what you both want to do. After all, you don’t want to experience any regrets later.

If you do decide to elope so you can have a romantic and intimate wedding, you might still want to have a party to celebrate your wedding after you get back. It doesn’t have to be a huge party like you normally associate with a wedding, but having a few of your closest friends and family members over for a celebration can be the perfect way to top off your wedding.

Posted by nancyb on Tuesday, March 11th, 2008


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